Toi et Moi Engagement Rings: Meaning & History | Mozeris Fine Antiques

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Toi et Moi (Two-Stone) Engagement Rings

Antique toi et moi two-stone crossover engagement ring on a dark background
'You and me' — two stones entwined as one.

A toi et moi ring (French for 'you and me') sets two stones side by side or crossing over — two souls entwined. One of the most romantic of all ring styles.

What is a toi et moi ring?

A toi et moi ring features two main stones, often of different shapes or colours, set close together or in a crossover. The two gems symbolise two people joined as one.

A romantic history

Napoléon Bonaparte gave Joséphine a toi et moi with a sapphire and a diamond in 1796; the style later reappeared on famous 20th-century engagements. It is enjoying a strong modern revival.

Stone pairings

Pair two diamonds, or contrast a diamond with a sapphire, emerald or ruby. Antique crossover rings often use old-cut diamonds.

Antique & vintage examples

Crossover and two-stone designs run through Victorian and Art Deco jewellery — browse antique rings.

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Antique crossover and toi et moi engagement rings.

Frequently asked questions

French for 'you and me' — a ring with two main stones symbolising two people joined together.

Napoléon gave Joséphine a sapphire-and-diamond toi et moi in 1796, and the style has seen famous revivals since.

Two diamonds, or a diamond paired with a coloured stone such as sapphire, emerald or ruby.