Promise Rings: What They Represent, Rules, and How to Wear Them
What Does a Promise Ring Represent?
18kt yellow gold promise ring, image courtesy of Mozeris Fine Antiques
A promise ring symbolises commitment, love, and dedication between two individuals. It is often given before an engagement to signify a serious relationship or the intention to take the relationship to the next level. However, a promise ring doesn’t necessarily mean an engagement is around the corner. It can also represent personal promises, such as loyalty, faithfulness, or a vow to remain close regardless of distance. Promise rings are incredibly personal, with their meaning tailored to the couple's unique bond. For some, it might signify a future together, while for others, it's a token of the love they share right now.
What Are the Rules for Promise Rings?
There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to promise rings. The meaning behind the ring and the way it is exchanged is entirely personal. Some people may choose to give a promise ring on a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary, while others might give one spontaneously as a meaningful gesture. The important thing is that both parties understand what the ring represents within the relationship. Typically, a promise ring is less formal and less expensive than an engagement ring. It is a symbolic piece, so the emotional value far outweighs the monetary one.
While there aren’t traditional rules like there are with engagement rings, communication is key when giving a promise ring. Both partners should be on the same page about what the ring means for their future together.
What Finger is a Promise Ring Worn On?
Extra-large 18KT yellow gold men's ring with two diamond-set coiled serpents.
Made in England, London, 1937 Fully hallmarked.
Dimensions -
Finger Size (UK) = Z +3 (US) = 14 (EU) = 72
Weight: 22 grams
Size: Diameter x height: 2.5 x 1.7 cm
Diamonds -
Cut: brilliant cut
Quantity of stones: 2
Carat weight: 2 x 0.07 carats
Total carat weight: 0.14 carats Clarity: SI1
Colour: K
Condition: The ring is pre - owned, has minors signs of usage, one of the diamonds has a minor surface chip, otherwise good condition overall
Serpent History
There is an extensive and intriguing history behind serpent rings, with specimens being discovered in a wide variety of civilizations throughout time and space. Because of its long-held symbolic meanings of knowledge, rebirth, and metamorphosis, the snake is often depicted in works of art and worn as jewellery.
A snake was associated with health and healing in ancient Greece, where the deity of medicine, Asclepius, was often shown beside a serpent. Intricate serpent rings, sometimes set with precious stones, were also often worn by Romans.
The Victorian period saw a rise in the popularity of serpent jewellery, with the snake coming to represent undying love and loyalty. Several of the snake rings and brooches popular during the reign of Queen Victoria were set with precious stones and had elaborate designs. Several jewellery items from the Art Nouveau period (late 19th/early 20th century) include serpents or other sinuous, naturalistic shapes.
At the turn of the century, the snake ring took on a variety of different forms and interpretations.
Art Deco snake rings were all the rage in the '20s because of their minimalistic, geometric styles. In addition, many famous people in the 1960s and 1970s wore jewellery shaped like snakes as a sign of their countercultural and rebellious attitudes.
The delicate workmanship and design of antique snake rings have ensured their continued popularity among collectors and jewellery aficionados in the modern day. These rings are a tribute to the timeless allure of the snake emblem and the skill of the artisans who fashioned them, whether they are ornate with diamonds and precious metals or have sleek, minimalist designs.
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A promise ring can be worn on any finger, though it is most commonly worn on the ring finger of the left hand or the right hand. Some people choose the left hand as it’s traditionally associated with romantic commitments, while others may opt for the right hand to avoid confusion with an engagement ring. The choice of which finger to wear it on is entirely up to the individual. If the couple is saving the left-hand ring finger for a future engagement ring, wearing the promise ring on the right hand is a popular option. Alternatively, some choose to wear the ring on a chain around their neck for added significance.
